We are not born with the relationship skills we need, and most often we were not modelled healthy relationships growing up. Partnership takes work, there's no way around it. Either we face what needs to arise, or we run from it, shut down, or ignore it all together, eventually making things much worse than if we just faced it to begin with.
Intimate relationships trigger us in ways that no other relationship does, but the growth and healing that can come from facing these triggers is profound. Not only can it save your relationship, it can also lead you to healing your own traumas and create individual growth like nothing else.
GET THE LOVE YOU DESERVE
Spending your life with someone special is a beautiful and special opportunity that not everyone gets the chance to experience. There can be many things that get in the way of you connecting on the level that you truly desire and why you desired to be in relationship to begin with. Past relationships, childhood and sexual trauma, money, careers, and that damn ego can all create conflict that drives you and your partner further and further apart.
RELATIONSHIPS NEED INTENTIONAL COMMUNICATION TO THRIVE
Even a healthy partnership will have its challenges; merging two lives into one while remaining individuals can be tough at times. Intimate relationships will mirror your deepest wounds AND provide an opportunity for you to heal if you choose to face the wounding or trigger that is showing up for you. When you face your challenges in relationship as a team, you create an opportunity for more love and healing to take place which leads to deeper connection, trust, and play!
I'VE BEEN IN A LONG TERM PARTNERSHIP FOR OVER 13 YEARS
We've had many highs and lows throughout our journey. What has kept us together is our commitment to growth, both in the relationship and as individuals. Learning different practices and tools to communicate our needs and listen to each others needs more effectively has been essential in connecting more deeply and staying together for this long.
HARMONIZE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Do you invest into other areas of your life? Why would your relationship not need the same level of time and care too?
You'll learn to understand and express your needs, empathize with your partners needs, and communicate effectively to to connect with your partner on a deeper level.
The intentional space we create together will help you to heal your past experiences and clear the trauma that has been blocking your connection so you're both able to enjoy the love that you deserve.
We will meet on Zoom for 75 minute sessions once a week for a month. In person sessions are available for local clients in Victoria, BC.
Some couples may need more time, and for others our work together over 1 month is enough to set them on a more harmonious path together.
I hope that you will see the value in seeking outside assistance, it changed my relationship in profound ways and we have created a safe and connected partnership that supports us both so beautifully and I want this for you and your partner too.